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Huiiiitttt korg. Pecite korang? Sht meh? Ikut tajuk tu,mlm ni ika nk share psal sebelum kawen,selepas kawen (sblm pregnant & slps pregnant) Sebelum kawen; Korang kena minta restu dr mak bapak. Takut hubungan x kekal. Lpas tu,hindar kan dr korg dr masalah tutttt. Fhm2 laa k. Sblum kawen,korg kena pasti kan korg ada duit yg cukup. Kewangan yg stabil laa mksud nya. Utk ape? Supaya hdp korg x huru-hara. Lg2 lelaki. Simpan duit tu banyak2 sblum kawen. Lpas kawen,duit kita duit kita. Duit suami,duit kita. Hi3 Selepas kawen; Korang kena tanya parents korg pasal adat turun temurun. Mgkin ada yg xnak ikut,zaman moden laa katakan. TAPi!! Kdg adat tu korg kena ikut! Yg perempuan tu haa,jgn dok goyang kaki. Korg kna bela mkn mnum suami korg. Jaga penampilan dpn suami. Jgn lpas kwen trus selekeh. Korg kena bngun awal,msak utk suami anak. Jd,ksimpulannya korg kena pndai masak. Kalau x? Botak laa kpla korg asyik mkn kat luar. Kalau ank org kaya x pa laa jga. Lelaki pula,lpas kawen kna pndai didik istri. Nnt x pasal2 masalah rmh tgga dtg. Kerja tu memang perlu. Kn lelaki ketua rmh. He2. Perempuan jgn asyik bergantung dgn suami. Ksian tau mrk. Huhu Elakkan kuat cmburu. Klau istri/suami kol@msj,korg jgn mrh2. Tnya btul2. Jgn cemburu melampau. Fhmm?? Kita prempuan kna bnyk mengalah,pndai menggoda,pndai dlm prkara lain,dan jgn merajuk lma2. Mrajuk lma2 mcm korg usir suami dr sisi tau. Semasa pregnant; Haa.. Yg ni lg best. Korg kena bnyk berpantang. Terutama mulut. Kalau wife korg pregnant,jgn ckp mcm2.jgn tegur mcm2. Tkut nnt bg kesan kat bakal baby korg. Klau wife korg mengidam,jgn x tunaikan. Takut bg kesan juga. Masa pregnant,prempuan bnyk ragam. Korg lelaki kena sbr. Hormon brubah,sbb tu perangai masa pregnant ada pelik sikit. Lepas tu,org kat sekeliling,kalau korg tau prmpuan tu bunting,jgn main lantak nk tegur perbuatan dia. Selepas melahirkan baby; Haa.. Ni lg best!!!!! Bestt!! Korg kena siap sedia x ckup tdo. Jd korg kena bersabar. Baby tu x tau apa2. Jd jgn mrh2 new born baby!! Kalau x nk,bg kat haku. Bior hku jaga! Lg 1,korg kna blajar buat susu,tukar lampin,pujuk ank dan mcm2 lg laa.. Perempuan semasa berpantang,wajib!! Jgn x berpantang. Hr tua nnt korg yg susah. Bkn org. Pahamm?!! Lelaki,klau x tahan,korg kna tetap than. Ank tu kurniaan dr tuhan. jgn d'abaikan. Aqu lth dah nk tulis pnjng2. Dah laa skt bdn. Huhu. Lain kli smbung lg.

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garra comel tikus belaan ko ni....

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Huiiiitttt korg. Pecite korang? Sht meh? Ikut tajuk tu,mlm ni ika nk share psal sebelum kawen,selepas kawen (sblm pregnant & slps pregnant) Sebelum kawen; Korang kena minta restu dr mak bapak. Takut hubungan x kekal. Lpas tu,hindar kan dr korg dr masalah tutttt. Fhm2 laa k. Sblum kawen,korg kena pasti kan korg ada duit yg cukup. Kewangan yg stabil laa mksud nya. Utk ape? Supaya hdp korg x huru-hara. Lg2 lelaki. Simpan duit tu banyak2 sblum kawen. Lpas kawen,duit kita duit kita. Duit suami,duit kita. Hi3 Selepas kawen; Korang kena tanya parents korg pasal adat turun temurun.

Mgkin ada yg xnak ikut,zaman moden laa katakan. TAPi!! Kdg adat tu korg kena ikut! Yg perempuan tu haa,jgn dok goyang kaki. Korg kna bela mkn mnum suami korg. Jaga penampilan dpn suami. Jgn lpas kwen trus selekeh. Korg kena bngun awal,msak utk suami anak. Jd,ksimpulannya korg kena pndai masak. Kalau x? Botak laa kpla korg asyik mkn kat luar. Kalau ank org kaya x pa laa jga. Lelaki pula,lpas kawen kna pndai didik istri. Nnt x pasal2 masalah rmh tgga dtg. Kerja tu memang perlu. Kn lelaki ketua rmh. He2. Perempuan jgn asyik bergantung dgn suami. Ksian tau mrk. Huhu Elakkan kuat cmburu. Klau istri/suami kol@msj,korg jgn mrh2. Tnya btul2. Jgn cemburu melampau. Fhmm??

Kita prempuan kna bnyk mengalah,pndai menggoda,pndai dlm prkara lain,dan jgn merajuk lma2. Mrajuk lma2 mcm korg usir suami dr sisi tau. Semasa pregnant; Haa.. Yg ni lg best. Korg kena bnyk berpantang. Terutama mulut. Kalau wife korg pregnant,jgn ckp mcm2.jgn tegur mcm2. Tkut nnt bg kesan kat bakal baby korg. Klau wife korg mengidam,jgn x tunaikan. Takut bg kesan juga. Masa pregnant,prempuan bnyk ragam. Korg lelaki kena sbr. Hormon brubah,sbb tu perangai masa pregnant ada pelik sikit. Lepas tu,org kat sekeliling,kalau korg tau prmpuan tu bunting,jgn main lantak nk tegur perbuatan dia. Selepas melahirkan baby; Haa.. Ni lg best!!!!! Bestt!! Korg kena siap sedia x ckup tdo. Jd korg kena bersabar. Baby tu x tau apa2. Jd jgn mrh2 new born baby!! Kalau x nk,bg kat haku. Bior hku jaga! Lg 1,korg kna blajar buat susu,tukar lampin,pujuk ank dan mcm2 lg laa.. Perempuan semasa berpantang,wajib!! Jgn x berpantang. Hr tua nnt korg yg susah. Bkn org. Pahamm?!! Lelaki,klau x tahan,korg kna tetap than. Ank tu kurniaan dr tuhan. jgn d'abaikan. Aqu lth dah nk tulis pnjng2. Dah laa skt bdn. Huhu. Lain kli smbung lg.


 

Hmm..  Sebagai penterjemah GC (gengcerita bukan gaycerita) yg tidak dibayar gaji waima sekelumit daun jambu batu oleh GaBRiEL, dah lama gak haku tak buat kerja2 mengedit kat sini..biggrinbiggrin

Tapi setelah menelaah posting Ika Syg kali ni, berpusing, berpinar dan pening2 langau dalam 8 minit gak haku memikirkan apa benda 'adat oo adat' yg cuba disampaikan ni..winkwink

Jadi signifikannya apa yg boleh haku simpulkan pada posting diatas adlh ... err .. err .. alamak..  

Malas la nak edit.. Buat perenggan dah laa..  Ha ha ha Harun Salim Bachiek..



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Kalau ada masa nak baca.. Just kopi n pes..
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Do men want to get married, or not? Do Men Really Want to Get Married is the question being discussed in a CNN article about whether the stereotypical belief that men are dragged off to the altar to get married kicking and screaming is true or not. CNN reporter, Alex Wallen, claims to have interviewed dozens of men on how they approached marriage, where these men admitted that they had fantasized about popping the question, getting married, even having a wedding.

Wallen reports that numerous men reported having a light-switch moment when they decided they should get married to their significant other. Examples given include a life-altering event, such as one man who suddenly realized his love for his girlfriend when she helped him deal with the death of his father; or it might be something as simple as having so much fun playing arcade games together that you cant imagine yourself having this much fun with anyone else. One man decided it was time to get married when he became angry and balled-up his fists when another man made a pass at his then-girlfriend.

Real men are perceived as committing till death do us part for the wrong reasons they marry out of convenience or under duress, and they acquiesce, kicking and screaming all the way to the altar, according to the article. If recent statistics are correct, men are choosing to marry later in life, with the average age being 28 before experiencing their ah ha moment, which is a good thing. Nevertheless, there are still many young men and women getting married too young, and far too many couples get married for the wrong reasons and end up regretting it later.

According to one survey claiming men DO want to get married, married men reported positive feelings about being married, with 94% saying they were happier married than single, and 73% reported their sex lives were better. Of the single men included in the study, 53 percent said they were not interested in getting married anytime soon, saying at this stage in my life I want fun and freedom, while 47 percent said they wouldnt get married until they could afford to own a home.

Of the 1,010 men aged 25-34 who were surveyed, 569 were married. Of that group, 81 percent said they got married because it was the right time to settle down. The desire to have children was a major factor for 35 percent; only 15 percent said they married sooner than they wished because of pressure from their partner.

Why Men Dont Want To Get Married

Another study was conducted by the National Marriage Project at Rutgers University of 60 single, heterosexual men of different backgrounds, between the ages of 25-33. The project results revealed the top ten reasons why men wont commit, or dont want to get married.

They can get sex without marriage more easily than in times past.
They can enjoy the benefits of having a wife by cohabitating rather than marrying.
They want to avoid divorce and its financial risks.
They want to wait until they are older to have children.
They fear that marriage will require too many changes and compromises.
They are waiting for the perfect soul mate and she hasnt appeared yet.
They face few social pressures to marry.
They are reluctant to marry a woman who already has children.
They want to own a house before they get a wife.
They want to enjoy single life for as long as possible.

These findings may not be what women want to hear or believe, but relationship experts agree with the results of the study. Audrey Chapman, author of Getting Good Loving and Man Sharing, agrees with the studys detailed findings that the sexual revolution hasnt exactly helped women wanting to get married in their search for finding a husband.

All that stuff that grandma said about `Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? is true. Women are making it too easy for men. Theyre giving sex away.

Now that theres more competition, women think that sex is the ticket to get a man when in fact its a sure fire way not to get him at all, Chapman reveals.

When men get lonely, all they have to do is call up one of their many women. And they call the one that theyre going to be able to spend the night with.

She says that nowadays it is common for many men to have a variety of women to cater to their various needs, including sex, companionship, conversation and even meals. Men can get all the comforts they need without making it legal.
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Seems legit to me..  Sebagai seorg yg beragama Islam, aku kurang setuju dgn pendapat2 ni, tapi memang ada kebenarannya..no



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Hmmmm.. Prempuan zman skrg mmg suka bg FREe. Sbb nk dpt fun. Aqu pun klau ikutkan takut nk kawen. Takut husband x setia,takut mcm2 bnda. Ahaaa.. Susah2. Kalau bujang telajak pun susah gak

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Sambungan.

Kalau dah ada anak,korg kena pandai2 jaga. Lain baby lain ragam. Ada kdg baby suka tdo kalau dgr org menyanyi. So,korg ibu bapa kena nyanyi lgu.. Baru baby tu dpt tdo.
Ada jga baby yg kalau boring gilerrrrr,dpt tertido.

Kalau mak bapak korg tegur,jdn buat muka masam. Korg ikut laaa nasihat dr mak bpak korg sepanjang korg jaga baby tu.
Mrk tu syg cucu,x nak cucu skt dan bla3. Fhm2 laa.

Kalau nak,korg blh tanya bidan. tanya pantang larang semua tu.

perempuan sblum kawen blajar masak tau.. Jgn x blajar. Blajar juga buat krja rmh yg lain. Jgn malas. Lelaki x suka prempuan pemalas. Huhu. Kan3???

Walaupun aqu blm kawen,krja pun xda dlm genggaman,tp siottt juga otak aqu ni kn? Hi3


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errr.... latok ijoi... gua tala paham la apa lu cakap. boley translate ka latok? gua malas la mau bukak itu dictionary. pagi2 otak gua masih lembam, kurang kefungsiannya untuk menterjemahkan apa yang latok katakan.

sekian la dulu untuk kali ini. babai.

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aku sokong nko cekodok..
eh atok ijoi, aku tau le nko baru lulus bahasa omputih dan baru nak bekawan rapat ngan mat saleh omputeh tu.
aku ni ha..dah lembam memikiokan makna tulisan nko tu..dak pahamnya aku weh hoi..
cer translate sikit..dah berpinau dah mate aku ni...
kang aku soh si Gabrielta tu kang dikatanya aku ni org tue lembam..isk isk isk

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ehhhh mcm kene lak time ni aku login..dh lame xlogin tertibe baca tentg kawen... hahaha elok sgt la aku mmg nk kawen dh bln 11 ni... tq ye ika bg peringatan... kikikiki

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wah cik juliza adlizan dan nak kawen...
Sape la hero yg bertuah tu...
Nnt jgn la segan segan nak jemput kita org semua ni makan nasi minyak...

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wah cik juliza adlizan dan nak kawen...
Sape la hero yg bertuah tu...
Nnt jgn la segan segan nak jemput kita org semua ni makan nasi minyak...


hehehehe bnyak bertuah itu org... hahaha t den jemput ye... sape yg dekat leh la dtg ye x... biggrin



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dekat tu tang mana...london pun sekarang dah rasa dekat...
Ape2 pun tahniah...

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aku dengar-dengar cerita ijoi nak kawin ngan gab tunyut...betul ke??

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dekat tu tang mana...london pun sekarang dah rasa dekat...
Ape2 pun tahniah...


 hehehe dekat je.... dekat kedah...  pejam mata n celik semula pon dh smpai... kikiki

tq en predom.... hehehe geng gc nila bnyk mendoakan... tq ualssss... aww



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huh jauh tu...tapi boleh sampai klu di gagah kan usaha...

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hehehehe nk seribu daya xnak pon kena daya jgk.... kekekeke....

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Ur welcome akak. Ika share ni sbb mak ngn nenek slalu je ajar.
Slalu tegur ika,mcm ika ni dah nk kawen. Kih3.. Tp ika ni blm nk kwen lg. dlm 5-6 thn bru nk kwen.

Lupa pla,tahniah kak. Smoga kekal bhagia smpai ke ank cucu.


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hehehehe tertibe ade yg pgil akak asa mcm tua bangat plak.... kikikiki anyway thanks ika.... tp betoi la ape yg mak n nenek ika gtaw tu.... t dtg la knduri ye..

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Jauh sangat tu kak. Ika ni x cukup bajet ni p kenduri akak tu. ada masa post laa gmbr khwen akak dlm ni. 1 pun cukup laa. Atleast jga ika tgok. Kih3

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se nak gi kendurik kau tu..jgn lupo bagi kad jemputan..



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se nak gi kendurik kau tu..jgn lupo bagi kad jemputan..


 ahahahah bole2 je cik gayah... tapi boleh x masukkan kad kawen dlm gc nie? bigboss bagi x?

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Jauh sangat tu kak. Ika ni x cukup bajet ni p kenduri akak tu. ada masa post laa gmbr khwen akak dlm ni. 1 pun cukup laa. Atleast jga ika tgok. Kih3


 insyallah aika.. heheheh masalahnya kawen pon lom g.. kikikik pas kawen pon jarang2 masuk sini pas kawen jenuh btahun baru nk masuk pic kawen.. hahahah



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dah kawen mesti kena layan suami...mana sempat nak log in betul tak juliza adlizan....

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laaa..mlm layan somi..siang2 lyn GC..huhu..

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wah gayah yg lebih arif....tapi knp dulu puan sri gayah jarang nampak online...

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Hi3. Jgn kn korang yang dah nk kawen. Org yg tgh kerja pun jrang jejak kaki kat gc. Hi2
Dah kawen,kna lyn suami layan isteri. Klau dah ada anak lg laa. Mata kna 24 hours tngok2 kn anak. Huhu

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gayah tu korang x tau ke bz. siang layan anak2, malam layan somi, tu pasal dulu tak de masa nak masuk gc. skang anak2 dah besar ada la sket masa nak jenguk2 gc, tu pun kejap2 je pasal sekejap2 je... "ayangggggggg......" jeng jeng jeng... heheheee..

betul tak puan sri gayah???

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Jeng jeng jeng.?? Apa tu? Hi3.
Jeng jeng jeng, c suami minta tolong buat kertas kerja. Huhu

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bukan la, "yanggggggg... tolong buat teh tarik ais.."

ko bayangkan hari2 aku menarik teh tarik ais. tengh2 pagi buta sambil main candy crush pun jadik. teh panas campur ais ko tarik sampai ais cair. sib baik tak tangan aku yg jadi ais.

sib baik la patner aku ni jenis tak berkira ngan aku, aku pun maleh aa nak berkira, takat teh tarik ais kul 2 pagi kan, doploh koleh pun aku bley buat. ape sangat nak dibanding ngan kasih sayang dia yang melimpah ruah...



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