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Marrying a pregnant woman


Dear All member...Please read and really understand the contents.To those yang belum kahwin
hati2 la no..control2 sikit nanti the whole generation will be affected. Look at question 1-5. This is serious. This kind of marriage is very common in Malaysia. Bila dapat tahu anak pregnant luar nikah, kalut nak bagi depa menikah.Nak tutup malu...Based on the statement below, the nikah is tak sah. Thus, it consider
zina... If it is not too much to find out kesahihan Q2 & Q3... because many of Muslim actually get their
children marry off once they know that their daughter is carrying an illegitimate child. A question was asked of the Imam recently, which raised many other questions. I would like to share them with you, as they are very important:

Question 1 : What is the correct thing to do when girl become pregnant outside of marriage?
Answer 1 : She should not marry anyone until the baby is born. wanita hamil tidak boleh dinikahi sehingga habis eddah yakni setelah kelahiran bayi*

Question 2 : Assuming the father of the child wants to marry her, can he?
Answer 2 : No, he cannot marry her, until the baby is born.

Question 3 : Is the marriage valid if they did marry?
Answer 3 : No, the marriage contract is invalid. A Muslim cannot marry a
pregnant woman, even if he is the biological father.*perkahwinan tidak sah kerana belum habis eddah*

Question 4 : If they married, what should they do now to correct it?
Answer 4 : They should separate. She should wait for confirm that she is not pregnant. They can then marry, as this will be! now a legal marriage by Islamic law. perkahwinan tersebut (ketika wanita tersebut hamil) tidak sah dan perlu menikahi semula mengikut hukum

Question 5 : What if they don't correct it?
Answer 5 : They will still living in a relationship of Zina as the Marriage contract is not valid. perkahwinan yg tidak sah adalah haram dan hukum ketika "bersama" suami isteri adalah seperti berzina*

Question 6 : What are the rights of the child that was conceived Outside marriage?
Answer 6 : According to the scholars, the child is not the father by Islamic law. Hence, the child cannot inherit from the rights over the child. The child also has no rights over the father.
. anak luar nikah tidak mendapat hak yg sama seperti anak yang halal. malah biological father kepada anak tersebut tidak boleh mewalikan anaknya walaupun telah menikahi ibu kepada anak tersebut*

Question 7 : If you say that the father is not the father by Islamic law, does that mean he cannot be the mahram of his own biological daughter?
Answer 7 : Yes, he cannot be her mahram.

Question 8 : A Muslim man and a Muslim (or Non-Muslim) woman decides to get married after having lived together, how should they go about it?
Answer 8 : They must separate immediately and the woman must wait for one menstrual cycle (to prove she is not pregnant), before they can enter into a Marriage contract.

Question 9 : If I know someone that is in this situation, should I tell them about what I have learnt or is it none of my business?
Answer 9 :It is your Islamic duty to inform them, so they can rectify their situation, otherwise all the children from that relationship will be born outside an Islamic legal marriage.Na'uzubillah..

Please do not discard this hand out. This is a very serious matter, so I
urge you to understand it, discuss it further with a scholar if you are not
clear, or do not agree. Inform those that may be in this situation and pray
that you or your children should never be

WALLAHUALAM...



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ye ye betul2....eh apa yg betul? aku tak baca habis pun..


tapikan ustaz, ari tuh saya dengar si pulan ni dah dapat anak2 tapi dia belum kawin..camne tu ustaz..anak2 tu ialah sebanyak enam ekor hasil dari pernikahan terlarang seekor kucing bernama semung dengan arnab bernama khairul nizam ?... 



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Astagfurullah...mcm tu ke rupe nye...cetek btol ilmu an erk...bile an pk2 balik...ade gak la 2 3 org anak jiran an yg buat mcm tu..nikah waktu baby ade dlm perut n now diorg hidup sebumbung..camne an nak tegur diorang pasal ni...an tak rapat sgt ngan diorg..lgpun mst diorg tak bg org bwh umo mcm an ni masuk campur..

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ni lah susahnya org kta ni..nak ditegur slah..x d tegur pun slah..

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biasalah arya...bila zaman dah bertambah maju...fikiran org kita pun akan bertambah maju gak...

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an wrote:


Astagfurullah...mcm tu ke rupe nye...cetek btol ilmu an erk...bile an pk2 balik...ade gak la 2 3 org anak jiran an yg buat mcm tu..nikah waktu baby ade dlm perut n now diorg hidup sebumbung..camne an nak tegur diorang pasal ni...an tak rapat sgt ngan diorg..lgpun mst diorg tak bg org bwh umo mcm an ni masuk campur..


ye lah kekadang kita pun jadi serba salah...if we are in this situation...at least kalau tak dapat tegur tuh...cukuplah sekadar tegur didalam hati....ataupun buat2la bertanya kat ustaz2 kat sekolah ke....kampung ke.....just tanya....

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Lucky wrote:


biasalah arya...bila zaman dah bertambah maju...fikiran org kita pun akan bertambah maju gak...


wa....bijak gak is3 aku ni yerk..makin lama makin syg...x sia2 lucky d madukan dgn is3 aku yg 1 lg tu

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